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"I can't use to-do lists, because when I write things down, I see how much there is to do, then I shut down and go back to bed. It feels awful! I hate it." The struggle is real, but I propose a way out: a way to have the benefits of the to-do list without the crushing anxiety and constant reminders that you're disappointing everyone, especially yourself.
You are probably used to interpreting deadlines as a control mechanism, especially since that's how it seems to be in software development. Imagine seeing deadlines as an act of love! No, really! I believe we can make this happen together.
Many people struggle to apply the ideas in Getting Things Done, partly because those ideas seem like abstract "good things to do", rather than as simple, practical solutions to immediate problems. Michael Lopp's metaphor of "Blue Tape" offers another way to understand the power of Inbox Technique, which might help you (or someone who needs it!) persist in writing things down, even when it seems like they're doing it, but nothing's really happening.
Describing the transformative benefits of _Getting Things Done_ sometimes sounds like cult indoctrination. Describing the concrete steps of getting started with GTD risks making it sound like pointless busywork. I propose another way to think about GTD that, I hope, makes it sound more compelling, both to get started and to stick with it.